If you talk about sex with your boyfriend/girlfriend does it mean that it will happen?

Basically the answer is not necessarily, however it depends on what you talk about and how you talk about it. It is always good to have open communication with your boyfriend or girlfriend, and it is important to let them know what you believe about having sex and what expectations you have of them.

If you and/or your partner have committed yourselves to abstinence, then discussion about setting up boundaries to ensure that you both keep that commitment is very appropriate and a healthy thing to do.